The definition of the word is complex, some associate it with pain and some with the ability to deal with it, but how we know that our solution is the one! We never know, but of course astrologers have a different opinion about it. When I look at anyone’s life right now, the narration starts with complexity but always ends with being simple. It unfolds with how spiralling life is and how it spins your world upside down, but always ends with “I want nothing but a simple life” you can relate to it!
I wonder how we become so complex in our life that everything feels like a conspiracy, happiness feels like the treat before oblation, pain is a norm, life is just a perplex of the world. Human emotions are known to be a paradox, we never know how to resolve it!
Terms like help (fancy word consultation) is a trend, always comes with a price. Psychologist and philosophers have endless hypothesis about human’s life, how it functions on the basis of culture, though process, era, social issues, and every impression person can imagine. So how can we solve the complexity of the life, how we can start to be smart!
Back to the headline who is smart! The question enlightens a new realm of life, “are we smart?” I say no, nobody is! Sorry hard truth, but even a person with good IQ is full of blunders. Misunderstand situations and regret it afterwards, who seeks help and feel guilty about it, or try to get my shit together but ends up painting my whole life with it! Rest I will leave it on your imagination, it’s a good exercise for healthy mind, makes it less shitty!
But in terms of being sassy about real life scenario, I have a question for you do you feel smart about your decisions? Like the fact that you deal with your problems alone, or you decide to share it with a close one, maybe took a consultation, decide to read self-help, or run away on a trip to dial down the crazy in your life or maybe running towards the crazy to feel alive. As I told you help is just a trend, paraphrased by each generation.
In my opinion, the process beings with why? Why you are alive, for something, someone, or the climax is yet to come. If yes here is the next step why you need to ask this question to you? What is so complex in your life that you need to question your existence! Well here you go you have found out all the basic roots of your complexity. Now how to resolve it, most of the people think it’s hard but it’s not, it can be way easy, if u just keep exploring (as dory said keep swimming!). It’s a clear build path with obstacle, and even if it not you know it’s easy to build new then repair old, peaceful right!
In the end, it’s an unresolved paradox, life, its elements, help, being smart, we can never see what’s coming so just start with an easy-peasy approach, and it will end soon!